A Fifth Season is a place of pause to grieve the death of my first and only child. A season characterized by reflection on the big stuff and the little stuff that this mom encounters as I parent the memory of my child, and my child, in loving return, parents my heart.
Wednesday, May 13, 2009
Real Life, Not E-life
Today, I sat at the kitchen table with DH and was distracted, by a bright red cardinal perched on a branch protruding from one of the many pine trees that surround our neighborhood. The pine trees are full of green patches of moss and so the red seemed more stark than perhaps it was. We watched the bird for moments. Only moments and it was such a fulfilling spectacle, though short. We talked about the world around us coming life as spring prepares a way for summer. This preparation that the frogs sing out for us every evening. They croak an almost deafening sound when we are still enough to listen.
And so I'm thinking, I need a little more real-life and a little less e-life. So, like so many bloggers, I find it necessary to write about taking a break from the net, the forums, the blogs, email, and go offline into real life for a few days. (Besides, it's DH's B-day today and I have a few things to do!)
I mean the net has lots to offer, but a red cardinal in the mossy green woods---Can't beat that. And yes, that's one of our frogs (or is it a toad?) hangin' out with us on the deck. I think he thought the pine needle on his back was a nice disguise. Heh heh.
I've left the comments open so if you visit when I'm not "in," you can let me know you stopped by, talk amongst yourselves, or leave a message for the frog! S/he needs a name!
Peace.
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I love the frog!
ReplyDeleteToad - bumpy skin, drier skin, shorter legs and tend to live on land
Frog - smoother skin, wetter skin, longer legs, tend to live in water
Enjoy the real life for a bit. Can't wait to hear of your adventures when you are back on-line!
No comparison at all. Enjoy!
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Real life trumps e-life hands down. I'm so happy to hear you will be enjoying the real thing. :)
ReplyDeleteWe'll miss you, but of course we'll still be here when you get back!
Love the story of the cardinal; one flew right toward us yesterday and sat a while. They're Henry's bird to me, so it was especially special.
ReplyDeleteEnjoy your break and real-life.
You'll be missed. xo
ReplyDeleteI hope you have a good break. I love reading the things that you write. Your frog/toad looks like Jabba the Hut from Star Trek.
ReplyDeleteWe're still here if you need us. Enjoy the real life.
ReplyDeleteHe needs to be kissed so he can become a prince. He's damn ugly right now! (But it's very cute that he visits)
ReplyDelete"real life" is so beautiful. Enjoy your time away!! Hope your DH has an awesome bday! I love frogs btw. I think you should name him Patrick. It just seems fitting. :) Take care.
ReplyDeleteEnjoy spending time in real life, e-life will be here when you get back.
ReplyDeleteI love the frog photo! Given the pine needle disguise I think this frog must be a spy. Spy's should have awesome foreign names so I propose "Giselle" otherwise known as "Amphibian Agent number 17"
I propose 'Wally' for the cool toad! or Woody perhaps!
ReplyDeleteHave fun...and remember that offline life is more real than online life!
*ICLW*
ICLWer here.
ReplyDeleteHope you are having a lovely break. We all need a break here and there. You have a beautifully written blog. ((hugs))
It is so easy to get sucked into the "E-life" and miss out on "Real Life", nice you are taking time for you, in real life!!!!
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Go and enjoy!
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Real Life? Outdoors? What's that?! :)
ReplyDeleteThat frog looks so comfy - he's just chilling, taking a nap. Great picture.
Mr. Shelby
ICLW
Enjoy your time in Real life. Thats a pretty cool frog on your porch there.
ReplyDeletehello!
ReplyDeleteWe just came back from a few days break from the "e-life". Hope you have a good time away too.
The frog looks like he's quite a jolly fella, I wonder if his name is Jolly. ;)